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Sunday, March 2, 2008

(sigh)SIGNS....

umk... so... when starting something new with a dude, right (smacking w/ dirty girl accent)... how do you know when you should move forward and go on that second date? I mean... scenario: everything is cool, great, copacetic. Your out on the date and your having a lot of fun. Then there is one thing that just throws you completely off. Lets say he's.... looking at his phone every 10 minutes. And it's pissing you off b/c it's like hes paying attention but not paying attention to you.Or he's waiting for something more important to come along. Or whatever it is, this one thing really irks you. Its making the date seem less and less great and more like if a second date comes or doesn't come you could care less. If your feeling nonchalant about it... do you go on the second date and hope that it gets better? Or, is that a sign right there that its not even worth it? (looking up to the sky with blank stare, really confused)

1 comment:

the elegant Independent said...

y didn't u jus ask him straight up?

i wudv'e, cuz ill b damned if i wasn't tha center of attention on our first date ::dirty grl voice::

u really shud jus address it, mayb he was nervous, or he didn't realize he was doin it. If he continues, then there's a problem